Here’s a question I often get: Where should I network to get the most leads?

Wrong question.

Networking is not about getting. It’s about meeting, engaging, establishing rapport, finding common ground and giving.

Networking works IF you make a strategic plan, target people and places, allocate the time, prepare before you go and do it consistently.

There are 4.5 types of networking:

1. Attending and participating in events.

2. Being in charge of an event and bringing people together.

3. Being in charge of a group or association.

4. Speaking at a local or national event and being the star of the show.

4.5. Volunteering in your community.

Here are a few specific examples of what you can do:

• Attend cultural or sporting events. They give you a chance to see old friends and meet new ones.

• Lead a group at your local chamber of commerce. It’s much more powerful to lead than to go to a business after hours to meet other salespeople and troll for leads.

• Speak at a trade show. Don’t just exhibit and look for leads. If you address attendees with a value message, they will all stop by your booth, compliment you on your speech and WANT to talk to you.

• Speak for a Rotary group. You can be a member of Rotary and basically see the same 50 people every week, or you can give a 20-minute speech at each Rotary club (and all civic associations) in your region. If you speak once a week and offer more information in exchange for a business card, it’s likely you’ll get 50 leads a week.

• Volunteer for Habitat for Humanity or the Red Cross, attend charitable events, or even give out water at a local race. You’ll meet like-minded people, and you’ll feel great for helping.

How do you choose which events to attend? Three ways:

1. Go where you love to go.

2. Go where your customers go.

3. Go where your prospects might be.

Here are a few fundamental ground rules to follow that will ensure maximum enjoyment and maximum benefit:

• Arrive early. Meet as many people as possible.

• Leave late. Maximize your time – especially if the room is full of decision makers.

• Don’t drink. You don’t need a beer. You need money. Beer and money don’t mix.

Have something of value to say. Play yourself down. Try to find out what they do. If they ask what you do, have a BRIEF explanation and a GREAT business card. Your 30-second commercial needs to start with a question.

• Talk about positive things and people.

OK, so I’ve networked and met someone I want to get to know better.

• Where is the best place to meet? Starbucks or a coffee shop. Someplace casual. Someplace inexpensive. Someplace with WiFi. Someplace where you can sit and talk.

• When is the best time to meet? Early – for breakfast. You can avoid traffic and make a powerful connection.

• What do I say, and how do I get to know this person better? My friend Bob Littell is the only person I know who totally gets networking. He calls his concept “netweaving” (www.netweaving.com).

Imagine meeting someone for morning coffee, and rather than asking “what he does” (which you could have found out on Google or his website), you hand him two leads of people in your network who might be good candidates for his business. WOW. That’s netweaving. And it works.

Do what I have told you above, and people will want to buy from you – no pitch needed.

Jeffrey Gitomer can be reached by phone at (704) 333-1112 or by email at salesman@gitomer.com. © 2011 Jeffrey H. Gitomer